Game, Set, Story: Interviewing 12 year old Kaia Neuman

What is your name and age?

My name is Kaia Neuman and I’m 12 years old.

What level of competition are you currently playing?

I typically play in the range of L6-L3’s in 12&U and 14&U.

What is something you love about playing tournaments?

I love showcasing my skills and using what I work on everyday and applying it to matches. I love to make my parents and myself feel proud and most of all I love playing tournaments because even though you don’t always win, if you work hard, the results will come and its the best feeling ever when that happens!

What is something you dislike about playing tournaments?

I don’t like how each match goes on a record and affects your rankings so much. I don’t like the pressure that tournaments have sometimes and I often feel like there is so much on the line. I always think What will my coaches think if I win? If I lose? What will my parents think? What will my opponents think and friends that I train with? It’s hard to get wrapped up in thoughts like these. I think its better to just ignore the things that make you feel too much pressure. It’s important to celebrate every victory and the results will come soon after.

What is the most challenging thing in tennis for you?

Tennis is especially challenging because games can be decided by just one point. Both players might win three points in a game, and then everything comes down to who wins the next point at deuce and then maybe the next if your playing with ads. Because of that, matches are often incredibly closer than they seem. When you lose, it stings more, because the outcome can hinge on a single point rather than overall effort.

What does it feel like to lose a match?

When you lose, sometimes it gives you more to reflect on than winning. When you win, you might ignore mistakes, but when you lose, they’re clearer and help you understand what you need to improve on. There are many mindsets after a loss—sometimes it’s “I suck! How did I lose that?” and other times it’s “I’m learning and improving.” Tennis mindset is hard because the sport isn’t straightforward. You can win fewer points and still win the match—Roger Federer only won about 54% of his career points! Sometimes things don’t go your way on an important point or game, but another win always comes!

What does it take to be a champion?

Tennis isn’t just about physical training. To be a champion, you have to train your mind just as hard. Matches are often won before the first ball is even hit—by the player who believes in themselves, stays focused under pressure, and refuses to let doubt take control. Mental strength doesn’t just support success in tennis; it creates it.